{"title":"Rabbi Yisrael Kleinman","description":"","products":[{"product_id":"you_and_me_equals_we","title":"You and Me Equals We","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eShalom Bayis needs more than just giving in.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBeing\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003emevater\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis a beautiful ideal, one for which every Jew can and should strive. Marriage would be a non-stop battle if we insisted on always getting our way. Indeed, couples who can graciously and sincerely concede to the other’s needs possess a master key to harmony.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHowever,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003evatranus\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e— or more accurately, a superficial simulation of this trait — can also mask and sometimes trigger deep and profound problems in a marriage.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIs your go-to strategy of giving in producing negative or dangerous side-effects in your marriage? Ask yourself some questions:\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDo you feel controlled by your spouse?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAre there many things you refrain from saying to your spouse for fear of his\/her reaction?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDo you feel that you give and give and get very little in return?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWould your spouse be surprised to find out what you really feel and think?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAre you unable to enjoy life and feel good about yourself when your spouse is down on you?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAre you unable to enjoy life and feel good about yourself when your spouse is down on you\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFor most couples, and virtually all couples that are unhappy, giving in simply does not cover every area of conflict.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eOnly an angel can constantly acquiesce without feeling defeated.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFortunately, tools exist that can enable you to establish yourself as a separate individual whose hands are on the controls of your own emotional life. You can exist and thrive as a couple, even in a state of disagreement, even in a state of conflict, even when one of you is occasionally unhappy with the other.\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou and Me Equals We\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis about those tools and how to use them.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eTo have a happy, healthy marriage, you don’t have to be an angel. But you do have to be you.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\"Approbations:\"\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eIt is clear that this book is the fruit of much labor, effort, and profound thought. The author understands and knows how to plumb the depths of people’s traits, and recognizes the powers and properties of the soul. For years he has helped many people with sage advice, and with Hashem’s help, he has been successful.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eRav Shmuel Kamenetsky, ROSH YESHIVA, TALMUDICAL YESHIVA OF PHILADELPHIA\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Feldheim","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46714543440184,"sku":null,"price":83.49,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0737\/9497\/8104\/files\/p13092_1.jpg?v=1693457350"}],"url":"https:\/\/mysefer.com\/collections\/rabbi-yisrael-kleinman.oembed","provider":"My Sefer","version":"1.0","type":"link"}